"Go after her. Fuck, don’t sit there and wait for her to call, go after her because that’s what you should do if you love someone, don’t wait for them to give you a sign cause it might never come. Don’t let people just happen to you…she’s not a fucking television show or tornado. There are people I might have loved had they gotten on the airplane or run down the street after me or called me up drunk at four in the morning because they needed to tell me right now and because they could not imagine regretting it… Act like an idiot, or be entirely vulnerable and honest, and fly 3000 miles on four days notice because you can’t just sit there and do nothing. Breathing into telephones is not everyone’s idea of love…go scream it and be with her in meaningful ways because that is beautiful and that is generous and that is what loving someone is. That is raw and that is unguarded, and that is all that is worth anything, really."

wow. (via onedayisaw)